Most Helpful Girl
I'm sorry that you have had to go through all of this. You have to learn that when you break up with someone then it's best to completely cut them from your life. This means deleting their number, deleting them from social sites and definitely not meeting up with them to try to be "friends". It will never work. Till the day you have zero feelings for her, a friendship will not bring any good. In fact friendship with ex's in my opinion seldom is rewarding. It usually just leads to confusion and feelings. You'll never heal and move on if you keep making her the main focus of your life. Right now it seems like everything revolves around her and that you actively obsess over her life and who is in it. This is bad. You have a whole life of your own to think about instead. Please do yourself a favor and let go of her and whatever friendship there is. It will carry on this way for years and years if you keep clinging onto her. There must come a day when you decide it's enough and then you must make the move and delete her. Till that day you'll be filled with this sadness and hurt. Feelings won't magically go away unless you work on it and actively try to get over her.
Most Helpful Guy
Welcome to the mans world.
Someone else caught her interest, showed her how bored of you she is and that she can go out and party and get another man as she can hail a cab.
The more you cared the more you look like an idiot for not moving on. The more pathetic you look to her and the more she will be glad she left you.
Your a fool to trust a woman when she says that she "loves you forever" when your 18 and below. If this chick even has average to decent+ looks there are and will always be 10+ other guys better than you ready to hook up with her. She ignored your call and she's with them? Yeah she's doing shit with them. She was just "with a friend" and then doesn't want you anymore? Yeah she's already did things with him.