we argue a bit, and every time she is drunk we end up in some sort of conflict. Is it time to abandon ship or do you think it will sail through this storm to?
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A relationship should struggle as long as you both still love each other, make one another happier more often than you make each other mad, and stil respect one another.
There are a number of things you can do. Do something for yourself once a week at least. I don't know what guys do for fun, fill that blank in yourself. Do something special for her once a week be it give her a back massage or do the dishes. And do something enjoyable for the both of you at least once a week. She will likely reciprocate all three of these things.