My gf for a year broke up with me just over a week ago. Now she sent me message yesterday 'hey how are u'
i replied today and we talked as if nothing happened; like friends.
what kind of indication is this. I mean i want her back but it hurts to know it was so easy for her?
Most Helpful Girl
Dont reply, she's trying to wear you out, she knows abit of you wants her back and she might too but she wants you to beg. Dont. she just broke up with you, have some respect and ignore her. What will you gain in the long term? you'll get back together on her terms and she'll comfortable to break up with you again, and again and again. If you dont worst case scenerio your single and you meet a new girl, new relationship but with the lessons learnt with this girl.
She's clearly trying to test how much you still want her and if you respond you are trading in your self respect, because she's clearly over it. If you dont reply she will most likely realise your gone and if she really wants to work things out she'll text again, I would wait till she calls. If you dont text her back she will definitely call you and when she does-then you talk0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
It could mean a lot of things. She might be talking with you to help herself feel better about breaking your heart. If you want to get back together with her, I wouldn't waste time just talking to her like a friend. Either ignore her and move on (or at least pretend like you are so she'll want you back) or just be genuine with her and tell her you want to get back together.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE