I'm trying my best to move on, forget him. But it's so hard. He never wanted to break up with me in the first place but he says he only did it due to both of us going to different universities this coming September. He told me he would have NEVER broken up with me if it wasn't for this situation, but he also said he can't be friends with me? I just don't understand how can someone who said they're IN LOVE with you, suddenly let you go... He was always more into me than him, and then I let myself open up to him and started liking him back the same. I miss him every single day, I see him in all my classes at college and my heart breaks and I cry every night. I love and miss him with all my heart and he was also my 'first' as I was to him too. How can he forget all the things we spoke about? I don't know what to do or how to move on:'( I have asked to see him one last time before I go away on holiday in the summer because after June, I won't be seeing him, ever and that's heart breaking and I want to go away on good terms knowing what we had was great. I'm not sure how he's feeling and he said that he will 'let me know' and he's not got back to me yet, I feel hopeless and distraught. He told me I meant his everything. Why can't he be my friend? We've been broken up for nearly 2 months now, and I tried getting him back but nothing worked because he said he can't do long distance, he told me that it's nothing else that triggered his decision but that and nothing is my fault. If I meant 'his world' why would he let me go?:'( Please someone help me :( I seriously want happiness back.
Most Helpful Guy
A man who truly loves you... from the deepest of his heart... will always make plans that accommodate both of you together. there are only few times where one's love is in direct conflict of his future or the significant other future... and there should be always ways to compromise. Love is so rare... but good news is: you still young
Probably he thinks he is too young to settle for now. He did like you a lot at some point... but he likes the wide open opportunities outside more. you should limit communication with him. you would start to forget him when he leaves... you will let go... it is not going to be easy... so feel free to express all your emotions, let it all go out
Hopefully once he leaves things will be much easier0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
He's letting you go because he feels he has to…that he won't be able to deal with a long distance relationship. When I break up/move on from someone, I have to cut ties... it's easier for me that way. It's selfish, I know, but he's like not able to be friends with you without opening himself up to more hurt.
Have you talked to him about it since? Is he absolutely set on moving on and not willing to do a long distance relationship?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE