Boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. We still talk and it's like he keeps me on the back burner. We have tried to say goodbye several times ad can't but I won't fully commit. He's a workaholic and giving me his time is hard. I told him to just completely let me go if he doesn't want this relationship. And his response was I will seriously try. But then worked so late he bailed on plans 2 nights in a row. I asked if there will ever be room for me in his life and if he even wants this relationship and again he said "I will really try leave it at that". What does that even mean. Ugh I feel so confused on what to do.
Most Helpful Guy
He says he is trying because that keeps you as an option for when he has nothing better to do. He has already let you go. You are the one holding on to him. You need to let him go.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
For starters To me it seems like he is afraid to let you go for the simple fact that u asked him does he want the relationship and he can't just say yes imma move on, he doesn't seem to want to let you go but at the same time he is working so much and you want time but all he can think to say is I'm trying , kinda letting you know he is trying to make some time for you in between his work schedule0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE