So I accepted the break up with my ex cause he told me too and didn't contact him he came back about a week later and commented on a pic and told me how sexy I still was we had a light discussion and then the next day we had another discussion he is still quite cold with me as I got him really really mad with my actions then he ended it not cheating or anything but to the point he ended things so he seems to be mad still... He's quite stubborn so I know for him to reach out to me must of taken a lot so basically we got onto the discussion about being together and again he said well it didn't work I said well it could in time but I can't make you want me do you wan me he said I do yh and then basically said he wants to see me to discuss things when he's off holiday? And that he does miss me? After that he kind of shut down again I don't want to push him as it will make things worse but today I said did you mean what you said last night and he said yh I want to see you again and to chill out an take it slow? He doesn't really want to make light discussion with me and when I try he either doesn't respond or clams up :( is he just saying all them things to keep my hanging or am I just treading on thin ice I know there is a lot to make up for on my part but I don't want to be used and be waiting while he's living it up on holiday so confused :(
Ex is still being cold but has come back advice please?
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I think it's hard to tell what his true intentions are.It does seem like he may want to work things out but saying and doing is two very different things.I think you should give it another shot and see what happens.But since you guys are not together then technically you can still keep your options open.He may find it hard to express himself if you say he doesn't respond and just clam up.Writing how you feel is a whole lot easier then telling somebody in person face to face.I think you have to decide if you think he is worth the time and effort to see if things will get better.0
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