Most Helpful Guy
First off let me say this. You can do better.
1: the guy is controlling. He has no right to demand that you not talk to other guys.
2: it seems like he has all these things he seeks out of you just so once you break one he can leave.
3: the guy is extremely immature. If he wasn't ready to handle being a parent with you he shouldn't of implanted the idea that he would be.
4: the fact that he claims he only used you for sext. As hurtful as that statement is, it's probably true.
5: respect yourself, and your child. Just because this one guy was good for two years doesn't excuse him being such a disrespectful guy in the end.
6: stop apologizing, you've done nothing wrong. You're just belittling yourself by trying to get back someone whose not worth it.
Have respect for yourself. You more than anyone else should know you deserve it.1
Most Helpful Girl
Being you have been together This long, he is just having a hissy fit right now, and probably just needs time to get over it. We all say things when we are angry.
Yes, I do believe he'll be back, with his tail between his legs, but I also believe, he will be laying down some Ground rules as well...And I do not have to tell you what they are.
You can either abide by his wishes, or throw in the towel and call it quits. And Put yourself in his shoes if he had sent a text to another, Even if it were harmless.
Let him go for now. Let him have his space. If you haven't heard anything by the end of this week, then send a text to explain Again how sorry you are, and that it will never happen again. If he responds, this means he is over his spell, and wants to work things out. And if he makes this a lingering thing with a grudge on his shoulder, then leave things alone until He makes a move to either forgive you or---Forget you.
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