My ex kicked me out of our apartment after 2 years of us being together (only lived together 1 month). It was all his choice in an angry rage. (I never cheated or did anything wrong. I called him out for still lying to me a second time about still talking to his ex and I said that I value honesty in a person. I've told him several times I don't care if he talks with his ex if he doesn't lie about it but he still wasn't open.) He said I couldn't 'handle the truth.' So he decides to kick me out for being too 'controlling.' (Because I don't let him lie to me, humph) Anyway, I even offered to come back and talk things over and stay together but he said we had nothing left, etc. But he's been acting so cruel withholding my furniture (saying he threw it away), hitting on my best friend, lying about keeping the apartment, joining a dating website immediately and adding over 20 girls on FB at once, and saying I'm an awful person and all this, and I'm not understanding what I did wrong. He lied to me several times, he chose to kick me out and break up and he's acting like I hurt HIM...Yet I've been missing him. If he's done all these things to hurt me and I recognize what he did was emotionally abusive and he's got serious vices...why miss him? It's been almost 3 months now.
Most Helpful Guy
Hey sweety whoever you are im sure ur a good person and do NOT have to suffer to the hands of the jerk :). Basically the attraction rules say that the more a person u like ignores u, drifts away, the more we want them. So in this case, u just need to make up your mind leaving this jerk... Just give him a phonecall & give him a piece of ur mind. Keep smiling dear :)
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I was like that a couple of months after my ex broke up with me in January 2014. I couldn't go anywhere it was like I saw his face everywhere at school. But you don't deserve someone like that you deserve better. My ex treated me like a dog, made excuses flirted with other girls, and I asked myself why am I still with this fool after the way he done treated me. I woke up the next morning and I was like I'm done I don't deserve this I deserve someone that will treat me right and that's what you deserve as well. There's plenty more fish in the sea he's not the only one you see. You might still be attached to the past because that's what I was attached to. Don't let it get to you just give yourself time to heal. No woman should have to go through that in a relationship if she has to that's messed up. It took me 5 months to get over mine and it was so hard but I had to do because I don't deserve him. Keep your head, I'll pray for you if you don't mind. You deserve better you deserve someone that will emotionally abuse you. Get up and get out go hang out with your friends or something, distance yourself from him. Meet other people interact with other people. There's someone out there for everybody but he's not just going to come up out of the blue introduce his self to you. You have to go out and find him, he's out that. Don't chase your ex because it shows your weak I did that once and it made me look bad. You'll be okay he's your ex for a reason. Don't ever go back to him because your to impatient to wait for the best. Hang in there, and stay strong please <3 you'll find someone better I promise you.