My ex and I dated for 5 months, he broke up with me in March and I kept no contact with him at all besides calling him two months after the break up. We met up last week because I felt like I needed closure. I think it went too well because I wanted to get back together with him at that point. Before it happened, I thought I was gonna tell him how I feel and walk away but instead all those feelings came back. I was not begging him to take me back either, I just told him how I felt and said if he didn't want to be together that I was okay with it. By the end of the night he was confused and said he needed to think about it and that he'd let me know. I texted him, then called him on Tuesday. I even left a voicemail but he never got back to me.
At this point, I don't even care about being with him. I'm just angry that he's ignoring me and not being straightforward with me. Maybe I'm overreacting, but I honestly feel like it's him.
I just want to call him out on it in a calm, mature way and tell him that I'd rather have him be straight up with me than avoid me, but at the same time I don't want to even deal with it. But I feel like I'm putting it off. What is the best thing to do?
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dont deal with it. If you did nothing to hurt him and he broke up with you then its not your fault. as long as you have a clear conscience you should be ok. I happened to be in such a situation before the best thing is to let go. You will be free. hope this helps0