Bit of a long story, last week I picked my GF up from a girls night out and when she got in the car she just started crying and saying Im too good for her, I get her to calm down and she tells me that she suffer from anorexia which I said I would support her no matter what, but after she told me I did nothing but worry and started to get physically sick from worrying , I told her how I felt and she just told me to forget she had told me about it. After that she just started to act cold towards me. I asked her what was wrong and she just told me that she's not happy with herself and she doesn't know what she wants anymore but she wants to be on her own for awhile, we tried to talk it through but we couldnt think of anything, so one night I pick her up from work and in the car we both decide that we should break up for awhile to sort ourselves out but while in the car she tells me that she loves me. Its only been a few days and and not seeing her or speaking to her is killing me, I don't understand what was wrong, we never fought and I always treated her with respect and love, Should I give her some space and then talk to her and try to get back together or something else. I just don't know what to do anymore.
Just had a strange but mutual break up/break with my GF but being apart is killing me (Any advice please)?
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It seems like she is going through an emotional tough time right now. Give her some space and then check on her and see how she is doing.1
Self-esteem issues are a landmine that's really easy to step on unintended. Give her some space but not too long, talk to her again but you have to say to her you don't want to loose her but if she wants to be with you she has to get counseling for anorexia.0
I think you should move on, let time heal you and look for someone else.0
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