I can understand that, and I am trying to grieve the end of the relationship. However, he expects everything to be the exact same, even though we aren't together. I don't get it.
He got really upset (like physically scary upset) yesterday when I just got back from being out with friends. I'm trying to keep busy to move on.
He broke a glass and was being really angry. He didn't hurt me or anything, but I could tell he was upset.
He thinks that the reason I was close to him was because we were friends (even though we were bf and gf).
What can I do? I'm trying to make this as nice as possible despite the circumstances. I don't feel as though I am doing anything wrong by focusing on myself. But I don't think it's fair to expect time either to heal.
Most Helpful Guy
This guy sounds like a controller. He is giving you some pretty obvious signs. The next thing he may do is hurt you. You need to GTFO. Please, get away from this clown. The most important person in your life is you. Please, take care of yourself. Worried for you.
Most Helpful Girl
He basically wants to use you for sex and his emotional needs without the commitment of being your boyfriend so he's mad that you're not going to let him do that by trying to keep busy and move on. He wants to be able to play the field without you getting mad (were not together I can see girls if I want) but wants you to sit there waiting for him to decide and not find someone else