He broke up with me on Friday, he said that he isn't sure if he loves me or wants a committed relationship at this time. He's confused about what he wants in life and if he wants a life with me.
I can understand that, and I am trying to grieve the end of the relationship. However, he expects everything to be the exact same, even though we aren't together. I don't get it.
He got really upset (like physically scary upset) yesterday when I just got back from being out with friends. I'm trying to keep busy to move on.
He broke a glass and was being really angry. He didn't hurt me or anything, but I could tell he was upset.
He thinks that the reason I was close to him was because we were friends (even though we were bf and gf).
What can I do? I'm trying to make this as nice as possible despite the circumstances. I don't feel as though I am doing anything wrong by focusing on myself. But I don't think it's fair to expect time either to heal.
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This guy sounds like a controller. He is giving you some pretty obvious signs. The next thing he may do is hurt you. You need to GTFO. Please, get away from this clown. The most important person in your life is you. Please, take care of yourself. Worried for you.1