she called me up and started crying.. after a while i also cried over the phone infront of her and she said to me that i dont understand her... and stuff...
she said she needs time to think.. she persisted thaat she is scared of me now and can never feel the same about me..
i tried contacting her and texting her.. she said whatever i do won't change anything.. this all thing went for 2 days and then she said she can't talk to me over phone as she is scared to death when she talks to me.. i kept on texting her but she replied after a hour or 2... later she said me to leave her and go ahead and alsoo let her go ahead... she's begging me and sorry for hurting me...
i told her ok and i wanna talk for the last time as it is her decision and it has been made.. she said no you will cry and it will hurt her again.. i said i won't that guy is gone.. I've understood...she said ok call now..
as i called her i talked nicely and calmly... and said I've spent those years amazingly... and all the good stuff,,, i even gave her some nice guilt trips sweetly... and i ended up the call with goodbye/...
NOW im missing her a lot i even was then but i controlled my emotions.. i see her on Facebook and she seems normal there.. with friends,,, bitstripping and commenting..
It is killing me... i feel like talking to her but i didnt... i liked her post and thats all what i did..
then i read your blog and thought to share and ask if you or anyone could assisst me of what will happen and what should i do.. KINDLY..
i all broke and i KNOW WE BOTH LOVE EACHOTHER..
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She sounds like a child. As do you. You are both conflicted, immature, irrational beings.
In a few years, you will have moved on, you will settle into your skin, and you will be a steady, mature, irrational human being.
Call a spade a spade. This girl is too confused to bother, but the bottom line is this. She's pulling away. No matter the rhyme or reason, she's pulling away. In a fight or flight situation, she flew the hell outta there. She has nothing to offer you, so start looking elsewhere.