she had some pressure from her family regarding her studies and focusing on them. she also said we can't meet cuz her parents feel its not good.. we have family terms... and were planning to get married in next 4 years after her studies are done.. so she started sayin to me that she is feeling guilty that we did it and her parents dont know we did... the guilt is killling her...
she called me up and started crying.. after a while i also cried over the phone infront of her and she said to me that i dont understand her... and stuff...
she said she needs time to think.. she persisted thaat she is scared of me now and can never feel the same about me..
i tried contacting her and texting her.. she said whatever i do won't change anything.. this all thing went for 2 days and then she said she can't talk to me over phone as she is scared to death when she talks to me.. i kept on texting her but she replied after a hour or 2... later she said me to leave her and go ahead and alsoo let her go ahead... she's begging me and sorry for hurting me...
i told her ok and i wanna talk for the last time as it is her decision and it has been made.. she said no you will cry and it will hurt her again.. i said i won't that guy is gone.. I've understood...she said ok call now..
as i called her i talked nicely and calmly... and said I've spent those years amazingly... and all the good stuff,,, i even gave her some nice guilt trips sweetly... and i ended up the call with goodbye/...
NOW im missing her a lot i even was then but i controlled my emotions.. i see her on Facebook and she seems normal there.. with friends,,, bitstripping and commenting..
It is killing me... i feel like talking to her but i didnt... i liked her post and thats all what i did..
then i read your blog and thought to share and ask if you or anyone could assisst me of what will happen and what should i do.. KINDLY..
i all broke and i KNOW WE BOTH LOVE EACHOTHER..
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She sounds like a child. As do you. You are both conflicted, immature, irrational beings.
In a few years, you will have moved on, you will settle into your skin, and you will be a steady, mature, irrational human being.
Call a spade a spade. This girl is too confused to bother, but the bottom line is this. She's pulling away. No matter the rhyme or reason, she's pulling away. In a fight or flight situation, she flew the hell outta there. She has nothing to offer you, so start looking elsewhere.0