I am living with my bf (french) for half a year and we have been known each other for one than one year. I feel he is avoiding the topic of future and marrige. I mean i am not going to let he propose and marry me at once, but i realized every time he got angry and annoyed once i talked about the future or topice related to marriage... even 1 mintues ago we werer quite happy about other topices...these days when i started this topic, he suddenly changed topic to how bad i am until now and how much do you want to pay for the next trip? Like if you do not pay enough we are not going... also like why i should pay all the meal everytime we are going out for dinner or date?(by the way, paying for the dinner, meal for date is so innormal for a guy? We are living together i pay the half rent almost the same with him even though he is 6 years older and earn much more than me... he only pays more for the date and some trip...) anyway, the problem is not bc of money, i feel he is always suddenly find this kind of topics to say how bad i am to let me angry and try to start the confilct between us evetytime when i try to start topic about future and marriage... he never say and complain like this in other time...
And then, after i heard what he said, i am always angry and start argument with him... and he can easily say break up and excape being responsible and marriage? and then he tried not come back home after this topic... is he doing this on purpose to avoid being responsible? it happened several times.. i just feel its always a sudden only when i talked about this topic? is it bc im really bad? i know im not perfect but why he dose not like that in other topic?
Because i am not like how he expect and he can not make the promise to me? Or french do not like getting married as their reputation? To be honest, im worried more also bc of this reputation.
Most Helpful Guy
"I feel he is avoiding the topic of future and marriage."
A lot of guys are in no rush to buy a cow when they're already getting the milk for free.0