I've been seeing this guy for 7 weeks, officially dating for 4. Lately though he never texts me first, when we do text it is like 4 messages and we're done, compared to texting all day non-stop. We haven't seen each other as often as usual. And when I checked today if our plans were still on to go to the movies he said that he had plans to go see a movie with coworkers and play cards after it.
Also he is still on his dating profile (where we meet) regularly.
Is he losing interest in me or am I over reacting
Most Helpful Guy
Your putting yourself in a hard situation. If you keep bothering him, he will feel he doesn't need to put much of an effort and just wait for your text. Just wait for a while to see i he texts or makes plans with you. If for some small reason he doesn't (unlikely) he lost interest. But when he does text you asking whats up? talk to him about it and tell him you miss him. To be honest with you, right now he is controlling the relationship, back off for a little, see your results. Let him chase after you, it may hurt for a while, but it will all be worth it if he really cares. Can you answer mine please0
Most Helpful Girl
My opinion is that you either talk to him about it, or hightail it outta there before shit hits the fan. If he doesn't want to talk to you about what is going on, then he is losing interest in you. Men are funny creatures sometimes. Maybe he wants some space or he is hinting at you that he wants to spice up the relationship. Either way, ask him about it and see what he says.
I hope this helped somewhat0