- Okay to immediately find someone else
- Mandatory wait period after break up
- Those people like me who just want TO KNOW!
Why get mad that the person you broke up with already found someone new?
What Girls Said 8
Some people feel hurt when they see that their ex has moved on so quickly because they feel "replaced"... or maybe they still haven't found someone new and it's just annoying to them that they're lonely, while their ex is not. That, or it could be because they feel kinda worthless when they see that someone doesn't care about losing them.
when it was a long relationship and he breaks it off only to get into a relationship two weeks later, it shows how little you mattered because he doesn't even need time to get over you and isn't upset about the breakup. and it leads me to believe he was already looking around for girls or is breaking up because he's into someone else which is a complete slap in the face.
I think the idea of there being a "waiting period" is a bit possessive; I know that it's to spare an ex's feelings, but I don't see how a short break is going to make any difference. In the end the other person is still going to be with someone else and if you find out you'll still be hurt by it, so how does a small period in between make a difference? Maybe in the short run, but in the long run it won't affect anyone.
Break-ups are hard for both parties. If you're the one who left, you're the one who realized that this person who once made you so happy is making you unhappy, or you're the one realizing that for some personal reason or other, it's just not working out right now and you need to end it. It's never easy, unless they were just using you to have someone. Seeing them "move on" so quickly is like they're saying "Well, I was just staying with you to have someone." And that makes it feel like you were being played or led on, like they were selfishly wasting your time.
They get annoyed because they feel they were played. Its as if they were nothing and easily forgotten in one day.
Everyone wants to think that they are the one that the other won't get over.
If the person who broke up with that other person is upset, it is probably because they are jealous and care about them! Just because they did the breaking up doesn't me they don't care, sometimes you have to do whats best for them or for you, but it doesn't take any feelings away.
I personally think you should wait before jumping into something else, because a lot of the times it turns into a rebound.
What Guys Said 1
Once its done and over with you can do as you please if you choose to keep you're self open its you're choice.
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