me and my gf have been together since highschool and now were 25. she wants to get married i dont know what i want though yet. i keep telling her well get married someday but i know i'm just saying that to keep her quite. she's pushing now and wants to set a date but im really not sure if i want to be with her. how do i figure out if i want to be with her? we broke up twice before but got back together im so used to having her in my life and im very close with her family our brothers are close, our parents kno each other and we go to each others family events.
i know another girl for a while too and i really like her too she is awesome we have so much to talk about and laugh about. we talk every single day about everything. she is really a number too she's so hot. all my friends thing she's smokin. her and my gf dont know each other they never met. she's a friend of a friend of a friend i met once and took her phone # and we kept in touch since. she knows I have a gf so she doesn't cross the line but one time i asked her if she likes me or thinks im hot and she said yes to both. we hang out alone sometimes but nothing ever happened. i get jealous when i know she goes with other guys it drives me crazy i dont want her to date other guys but i tell her to so she dont kno how i feel.
now she cut me off she won't talk to me
she said she won't talk to me anymore because i have a gf.
so i dont know what to do. my gf is loyal. obviously this girl isn't loyal bcus she bounced on our friendship right? if she was loyal she would have stuck to our friendship?
she said that i led her on i made her think i like her bcus i talk about breaking up with my gf. i know i made that mistake i shouldn't have done that. i said it a lot of times so now she thinks i was just leading her on.
i miss talkin to this girl
i dont know what to do i mean she just moved on doesn't care to talk to me anymore.
what do i do?
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I'd first forget about the other girl and mostly focus on your relationship with your gf. Change the question from "do i want my girlfriend, or this other girl" to "do i want my girlfriend" in general.0