First off let me say that yes I'm that girl - ISSUES. The first guy I was with I thought I loved at the time so much and he told me he didn't feel the same and basically disregarded my feelings. I was heartbroken and it took me a very long time to stop thinking about him , I have now and of course he tries to make himself known and seen and tells me he misses me - I ignore it. This messes with my head though because I'm wondering if every guy will always play these games.
I've been seeing a guy for almost 8 months , we were close to dating after the first couple months then i went out of the country and we were both so busy when I came back it caused a major rift - with my commitment issues, anytime the waters are rocky I end it with him and then a few weeks later one of us texts each other. The other day I told him I don't think he cares about me and I don't want to waste my time.
He tried really hard to prove to me he does and told me he's been busy even though he said they weren't good excuses - when I went to his place " to talk " he was watching a show -( we used to watch a show together every night - ) and after he's like ok let's talk do you want to yell at me - I hate making myself vulnerable so I really didn't even get to deep into how I was feeling because I didn't want to seem weak, we went to bed and had sex ( Which I initiated ) and that was that and now all I can do is think about him, I'm lonely - my job is stressful and draining ( actress ) and I really do want a relationship at this point in my life , I just hate the idea of being rejected.
Should I end all contact with him , I'm so scared of being hurt again that I'd rather not even talk to him about how I'm feeling but I don't want to leave without a trace.
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It obvious that he really cares about you. Tell him! Man need that word just like us, girl.0