My. ex broke up with me due to trust issues and lately we've been hanging out although he says we can only be friends and he's moved on (to even talking to some girl) I find him spending time with me and has even held my hand and flirtatious but minimal... I told him if I could at least change his decision if I really work hard for it and he didn't texted back yes or no... I've told him ill do my best to prove to him how much I love him.. he tells me not to waste my time because he doesn't want to hurt me.. yet when I see him and we sit together he has put his arm around my chair, is touchy feely... with this being said do guys enjoy the chase? Is this something I shld continue to win him back? What? Any ideas on what to do to pursue him?
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It depends. On what the reason for the break-up was...
I moved on from an ex because while I liked her (and continue to), we couldn't manage the relationship. Her timings didn't match mine. She expected me to be around when she was free (can't blame her, as she was busy and I was kindof flexitime).
Finally, it was too much and I was falling sick. Badly. So it was my health or the relationship.
So, while we still are friends, I would feel like your ex and prefer that we didn't start this again. As he says, don't want to waste her time and don't want her to get hurt!0
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