Most Helpful Girl
She looks a lot worse than you do. It's a really shitty feeling, I would know, but you'll get over it.
Most Helpful Guy
It's not a dunce hat. It's honor... You trusted her. Do you know how many women would die to have a man who trusted them, like you trusted this other woman? No, do not be ashamed, or feel stupid. Feel sorry for her... This shame will be on her head until she repents of it, and cries tears of shame.
You are a solid, honorable, decent, good man. A worthy woman will cherish those things- not exploit them.