Last week, we spent the night at our second house, ate some delicious food, talked, lied in the sun, listened to music and had a great time. He mentioned this when he broke up and said he was surprised over how good it was. It was like we had no problems at all, it was like last summer.
My question is, are we completely over? He said he had been thinking about this the last couple of months, and that he had really, really tried, and he thought I was a great girl and he wanted to be with me, but his feelings were chased away by my wish to keep us a secret, to not hurting my bff (I'm not really a bad friend, it is another story, not important to this). He said he has feelings for me, but they were weak, but I think about our little trip and what wonderful time we had. I think there is still something there. He says there is nothing wrong with who I am, the problem is what is around us. How can anyone throw away 11 months in two weeks? I want him to fall in love with me again. Is it even possible
- We'll get back together.
- We'll not get back together.
- I don't know.
- There's a small chance.
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I just went though something similar. :-(
One weekend my ex boyfriend took me to his parents... he said he was super happy, that I was his love and his pride. Next weekend (after a fight), he was not sure he wanted to try again... cause the feelings were not the same.
Two weekends after (after I tried to make it work again), he said he didn't love me anymore.
So... if he gave you the "my feelings are not the same" speech, just walk away. He already made up his mind. If you continue fighting for him, you will hurt yourself unnecessarily.