What's a broken hearted woman to do? I do feel we are meant to be but shutting me out and ignoring me (this has happened before) makes me so frustrated and leaves me feeling rejected.
Please help... do I leave this 20 year friendship/relationship or fight?
Most Helpful Guy
There is no such thing as a soul mate y'all have just been together (on and off) for a long time. Doesn't mean that's the only person you can be with. It's ultimately up to you. Do you want to deal with him being a father to a child that isn't yours. Do you want to rekindle your on and off relationship again or just leave it alone. It'
s up to you. I just say that don't try to keep it together with him just because you think he's your "soul mate". I don't think there is a such thing.
Most Helpful Girl
That's horrible :( i feel for you. To have someone you deeply love to father someones elses child. The guilt can be killing him and he probably feel like u don't deserve him for what he has done. Maybe that's why he hasn't fought his way to be with you again. He has to clear his mind and set some priorities straight. Anyways You should have an idea why he is reacting in such a given manner since you know him better than all of us here.