My fiance left me after 3 years together! I need advice!?

my fiance of 3 almost 4 years left me out of the blue. we were happy as can be. we lived together for 2 years then he got a job opportunity back down in florida so we were going to wait till he got the job to come back and get me and on fathers day night he called me and we were fine and happy, then after we got off he said he can't do it anymore. that he doesn't feel the same. and i was so lost, because for weeks he was telling me how he cannot wait to come get me and us to start a life together! his family loves me and is confused too! he won't talk to me. i've tried. now i really want to fly down and see him.


Most Helpful Guy

  • Sounds like he may have someone else. Give him some time to contact you and if he doesn't move on. If there isn't anyone else and he is just confused, he will call you eventually if he is interested in making it work.

    • but the thing is. i know he'd never cheat on me or anything. its just not who he is. he's been madly in love with me and we were best friends. he can't just flip a switch over night

    • He can if he becomes madly in love with someone else with you knowing it. But that may not be it. I would wait for a while to see what he does.

Most Helpful Girl

  • He might have been saying that to you because he thought that's what you were expecting to here. Anyway you are in your early 20's most likely and you will find somebody else. At that age guys flock to you like flies - and relationships that start this early rarely last. I'm sorry for your loss but you will find somebody else.


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  • You can go and see him but I have to admit I suspect another woman is in the picture.

    • but thats the thing. he's not the type of guy to do that. he's been madly in love with me. and he's been my best friend and my rock. we'd never want to see eachother with anyone else.

    • Well something has to be happening to justify this change in him.

  • What do you need advice on? On going to Florida to see him?


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