So practically, I've pushed her away, and told her to have a good life. I was mostly angry, sad, and disappointed all bunched together. There was no clear closure to our "Break-up" but I'm guessing it's considered a break up because we haven't talked for almost 3-4 weeks since we talked. There has been a few drawbacks and signals that she is still there. For instance, she put her default picture on social networks of a gift I gave her nieces long time ago, and she nicknamed me after that same plush I gave her. She also tried friending me, but decided to unfriend me.
The real issue is, that I am having a really hard time trying to move on, yea, I did love this girl because she was my first honest serious relationship. Although after the break-up I haven't felt any remorse over it, and I'm guessing it's due to disappointment and hurt. Some things I did realize is that I tend to eat much more (maybe depression?) but I am not lacking motivation (been going to the gym lately)... Another factor is that I tend to have dreams about this girl, and she wasn't the last person on my mind. I don't know what I'm going through, but I feel like it's going to affect me in the long run. I need help.. Please guide me!
P. S. Sorry for my grammar and writing everything everywhere I just can't clearly think straight :/... THANK YOU IN ADVANCE!
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Don't worry about it. It's perfectly normal to feel like way after a breakup. Kind of conflicted, right? Like maybe I didn't make the right decision? Its okay. It's perfectly understandable. Sometimes all you need is a push in the right direction. You had a long and serious relationship with this girl, but it's definitely over. You'll get closure when you are both ready for it. But right now, it would just bring a lot of unnecessary heartbreak for both of you. You don't exactly have 'diagnosable' mental depression, which should be a huge relief lol You'll get through this. It's hard now, but soon you'll find someone better who is worth all of this struggle. You deserve to be happy even when you think you don't. She'll move on and right now she's just playing with your head. She's posting those things so you'll see them. You have been looking at her wall since you said she wasn't your friend.. I'd stop that... It's just going to hurt you more and leave you asking questions. Just remember why you broke up with them and why its good for the long run that you did break up with them. It'll all get better. Don't worry