I want to move forward with my life and find myself. How does one transition from such an impactful, primary role to just focusing on themselves and what they want out of life? Can you give me some tips and/or advice? It would be greatly appreciated!
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Divine Wisdom dictates there are three kinds of relationships. The first is inhabited by two takers, short lived at best. When one or the other is done taking it is over. The second relationship is inhabited by a taker an a giver. It can go on for a very long time. The taker will take as long as the giver can give. The giver needs to be given to or they will eventually be sucked dry. This relationship is doomed to failure due to the fact it is unequally balanced. The last relationship is inhabited by two givers, HEAVEN on earth. Two people trying to out give each other. If you are not in a relationship that consists of two givers then I suggest you keep looking for the right relationship, it will save you a bunch of heart ache...
Never stop being a giver and aspire to be a taker. Selfishness is an anchor not a blessing. Work on being the giver you are when you rediscover yourself through things like volunteer work. That way you will not morph into one of the lifeless zombies that already fully inhabits this earth. One day at a time and one step at a time. Start with the things that interest you the most.1