Pretty much want answers and opinions to the question. I feel like i am losing my mind. Weve been broken up for at least a month now but i found out last week she slept with someone and rumours of more (i try not to take notice of rumours) were not together so why does it hurt? My mood goes back and forth from very angry to very sad... almost depressed. I've just got so many thoughts flying around my head atm even starting to question the reasons for us breaking up. Help. I've tried the whole cutting all ties of communication but i can't even bring myself to that. Deactivating fb... missing her in the way of wondering what she's up to and how she generally is (i know it makes me sound like a stalker, im not :) ) if anyone wants to know why we broke up ask. I just dont wanna bore anyone with a long ass post. In short she commited. She commited well at least i feel she did, then changed her mind bit felt it was embarrising or felt bad to simply say she changed her mind... sorry for the long post
Why am I so bothered my ex gf is sleeping around?
What Girls Said 7
It hurts you because you had just broken up and she seems to already moved on and forgotten you like of you meant nothing. That's why you get angry. You get sad because you miss her and you still have feelings for her. The best way to move on is to cut all contact with her, defiantly. You need to find something to distract you. Probably meet new people.1
Because you subconsciously feel that is your va-j-j and that it belongs to you and you're still trying to learn how to let go of fact that it was yours and noe no longer is its only been a month so seems about right that you feel the way you do buut geez the fact that she's jusy giving it up like that is crazy? Maybe she's just trying to move on and get over you0
What I learned from divorcing my high school sweet heart that I was with from 14 to 26--
YOU CANNOT CONCERN YOURSELF WITH THEM. FORGET. THEM. Easier said than done but seriously.
FORGET HER. Block her 100% and allow no new info.
You don't want her anyway, do you? Now she's all dirty and use up.0
No one wants to think they can be replaced. Plus it's just hard to see someone that was once yours be in the arms of someone else. She can try to fill the void by sleeping around, but it won't work. If anything it'll leave her feeling more miserable than she already is. Hang in there, time heals all. Don't even question what it'd be like to have her again, it could never be the same. There's a better girl out there for you that won't take you for granted. The grass is not always greener, hopefully she's learning that.1
What Guys Said 1
In addition to the residual feelings you have for her, her sleeping around is weakening your self-esteem. It makes you feel inferior... as if you are not capable of fulfilling her needs, and therefor, not good enough for her to commit to. Also, since the breakup or the parting of ways was fairly recent, you are still territorial of her and subconsciously hoping to reconcile.
Your feelings are normal, given the circumstances.0
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