My "boyfriend" and I had been dating for 18 months before he moved with his family to a different state. We decided we were going to continue dating and work things throughout the way. On May 25th he broke up with me. I was tired of him not making enough space to talk to me on weekends since i would work and when I would get out he would always be with his brothers (which are total flirts) & wouldn't make time for us to talk. I got to the point where i would try to do the same thing (not make much time for him) so that he could understand how I felt. Instead of understanding, he broke up with me saying that I was pushing him that way. We continue talking but he keeps confusing me about whether he still likes me or not. How can you stop loving someone from one week to another? Apparently it was easy for him. I'm supposed to go visit him the week of the 4th of July which would have been our 2 years. I'm not sure if to go or not since he doesn't seem sure about us anymore and i don't want to go and feel stupid but i also don't want to miss an opportunity of things being able to workout after finally seeing each other since I continue to love him. I'm just so confused about everything. Girls, what would you do? Guys, what do you guys think about it overall? PLEASE HELP! :/
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OMG!! Sounds exactly like my relationship. That's crazy. My bf moved to another state as well 3 years into our relationship. We kept it going but obviously had issues as well, there was a point where we broke up a week before I was supposed to go out there to visit for the first time, it was so extremly devastating because I missed him so much yet the long distance was so hard and felt nearly impossible to work out. I decided I'd go, to either at least have closure or to work things out (which is what I was hoping would magically happen) and sure enough it worked. We sat on his bedroom floor the day I got there and talked for hours and it ended up with us hugging eachother crying into eachothers shoulders. We love each other way too much to end things just like that and I'm so glad I found the courage to at least go and see him for what could've been the last time ever. The rest of my week there was amazing and seemed as if we fell in love all over again. Now he's moved back to be with me and make our relationship better despite the sacrifices he's now making. We're doing amazing now and I'm so glad I chose to not give up just like that.
By the way reading what you wrote kinda made me tear up remembering exactly how I felt when I was going through that. I say you still go, you won't be making a fool out of yourself. Either you work things our or you have closure. I really really hope you guys work it out, don't hold back your feelings let him know how much you love him and how hard you'll try to make things work. Ldr are definitely much challenging but it also shows the things you'd do for someone you truly love and care about (: good luck and I hope you guys have a great time together2
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