The first week of us dating, he ALWAYS initiated the texts, i mean, I never started a whatsapp chat with him, I always waited for him to start. I didn't want him to think that I need him or annoing :/. Any ways, he said that he's not in the right place to go out with any one now and its over between us.
I was wondering if the "who will initiate first" thing had something to do with the break up. Do you think he felt like he was doing all the work?
I wanted to ask him, but i was too shy to ask :(
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If it's in the dating stage, I don't mind initiating all of the contact, but if she's a friend or girlfriend, I'd get fed up with contacting them constantly. I'd call her out on it too, if things don't change then I'd call off the friendship/relationship.
To me it's a massive sign of disinterest and when you are in a friendship or relationship it should be a two way street, not a one way street.0