I don't care I'm not going to marry someone I cannot trust and I sure as hell don't want to be cheated on again once we are married. I told everyone this but they were taken aback by my answer all telling me to forgive him. Even the woman who is going through divorce told me she was sorry and to marry him. Should I just forgive him and suck it up?
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Having been cheated on I say never again. They'll do it again and you'll be in a relationship wondering about if he'll do it again. Whatever excuse he gives you'll wonder if it happens to him again. So he'll probably get "infatuated" again with someone else. I'm surprised you have people telling you to forgive him. I mean seriously, when you get married I'm assuming the sex will be raw. Do you really want to risk an STD?