I dated this guy for three years and he proposed to me two months ago in which I said absolutely yes. I broke it off six days ago because I found out he cheated on me with a girl at his work who was married. Once a cheater always a cheater. I told him it was over and this was unforgivable. Once everyone found out they all just told me to suck it up and I was overreacting. He keeps telling me he was sorry and he still really loves me. He didn't even change his Facebook status and once he saw mine he immediately called me and kept asking are you sure? Please come back. Or saying he was infatuated with her.
I don't care I'm not going to marry someone I cannot trust and I sure as hell don't want to be cheated on again once we are married. I told everyone this but they were taken aback by my answer all telling me to forgive him. Even the woman who is going through divorce told me she was sorry and to marry him. Should I just forgive him and suck it up?
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Having been cheated on I say never again. They'll do it again and you'll be in a relationship wondering about if he'll do it again. Whatever excuse he gives you'll wonder if it happens to him again. So he'll probably get "infatuated" again with someone else. I'm surprised you have people telling you to forgive him. I mean seriously, when you get married I'm assuming the sex will be raw. Do you really want to risk an STD?1