When we met, I knew she was the one. Soul mate if I can call. We became friends , best friends and then after knowing each other 6 months we committed into a relationship. Since then everything was awesoe. I dare say better than in the movies. We were crazy for each other and there wasn't a single moment we felt we didn't love each other. We both moved into a flat and started living together. Each day was a new journey, a new wonnderful phase of our lives which we loved very much. It continued for 2 years but then like they say everything comes go an end. We parted ways. I moved to a different country. It been 3 months now. The 1st month we didn't talk at all and then we started talking gradually. Now she told me she has a bf but she doesn't know if it will last. Every day I wake up with èthe feeling of going back in time and changing the things that had happened. When I ask her about us she says I Dont Know. There isn't a moment when she said No. But just the mere fact that she is sleeping with someone else, laughing spending time with someone elsekills me. I want her back in my life bad. I miss her like crazy. I seriously dont know what to do guys. I know its my decision but if anyone can help with few suggestions I will appreciate.
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Dude I know exactly how you feel because I'm in a similar situation myself.
We were in love but she has some kind of fears that prevent her from being with me so she blew me off and went back with her ex boyfriend whom she doesn't love and they're not attracted to each other but he's safe. Now I just keep thinking what I can do to get her back but there's nothing I can do. It's on her she has to want to come back and if she ever wants to I hope she'll have the guts to show me again.
It sucks so much you just don't know what to do and just thinking of the fact that she's being happy with someone else is killing you it's like there's a pain in your chest and you feel like you're running out of air. But in my case I know she's not happy she'll never be because we literally were sole mates and we never felt this way about anybody else before. You can't just forget that. There's no way because I know. I can't put her out of my mind and believe me there's lots of women that would be really glad to go out with me but my eyes see only here.
I wish you that she figures out she can't do without you and you guys can get back together.
In my case it seems nearly impossible.
Best of luck to you.1