We were together for 3 1/2 years until this April when he moved out abruptly after I told him to leave for making advancements towards a girl. Since the day he left we have been seeing each other. Me telling him he needs space. Him telling me at times he does but most of the time he tells me I'm still his girl, he loves me, wants to marry me, make plans with me, 3 days ago he admitted to going out with someone else. 2 days before this he was at my house, crying for me to be committed to him. talked to me for hours begging me; that he doesn't know what is wrong with him or why he is going through this but doesn't want to lose me. he has been saying this almost everyday since he left. I told him he needed time. I think he needs to be free for now. After I found out about the girl, he said he doesn't feel the same way about me. His friend took me aside that night and said, to let him go for now but that this man loves me he is just very lost inside right now. That I am the love of his life and he says it all the time. That everyone including my now ex believes we belong together and I should let him go but in 6 months see where things are... My question, am I being delusional? Does this man just want to move on? I'm not waiting around, I'm just deciding if I should completely let go. everyone that knows us says no. But that doesn't mean it's the right answer..
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usually when people have "space" they just think about each other... and what the other person might be doing. Butyah the dude sounds broken up... even his friends are approaching you like "yo, the dude really likes you... and is really sorry." Normally they would've reacted like "Yo you don't need that bitch."
it seems like you don't want to be a total bitch, and ok i understand. I think you have let go. I think his crying might be bothering you a bit... but if he wasn't so emotional "bam!" you'd be cool as a cucumber.
So he made on an advance on another woman... but hey if the dude is that broken up about it, i doubt he is likely to have even gone through with the whole infidelity0