a week after that happened she suddenly shows up at same bar with this guy she was supposedly dating , she mentioned at time he worked out of state so I didn't think it was anything that serious but they've been dating for a couple weeks now and he's still around and it appears to be more serious than first though and such. so I'm having a hard time dealing with it as I still have a lot of feelings with her and its really awkward to be around her and him as I was very close to her but now there's sudden this guy in the picture
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From reading your post, I don't think it's that serious. I kind of think that it's a revenge tactic. It's natural to get jealous or envy to see someone you were pursuing and still kind of like with someone else. After a while, it will wear off. Just give it some time. Would you feel uncomfortable if you politely asked her if that's her boyfriend? If not, it wouldn't hurt to ask.