How do I deal with a breakup before it happens?
What Guys Said 2
You have to trust that you can deal with it, and trust that your relationship will be the exception to the rule. You are assuming that just because you are young, relationships won't last and seperation is inevitable. Relationships can last a lifetime, just look at most of our grandparents.
So don't assume that it's not possible, because it is.
On that same token, relationships can fail. Of course they can fail. That has nothing to do with age and maturity, as mature adults separate and get divorces just the same as young ones do.
These conclusions are completely independent of the next guy you meet. He is an unknown variable and you have to give him and yourself a fair shake no matter what. Unless you deliberately pursue relationships based on shallow premises, there's no reason to be so pessimistic. It does neither of you any favors.
So don't worry about handling heartbreak because the fact is, you can. It's going to hurt, and the pain is a sign that your heart was in the right place and you have it your best shot.
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Slowly distance ur self from the person spending less time with them. amd start finding other activities to do while u would normally be with them
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