I've known my ex for 2 years. we had a rocky relationship we broke and he got back with his ex. Im was broken, after a month or 2 he contacted me, i slept around during the 8 months we were together bc i didn't think we had a chance. When we got back together 5 months ago i was loyal but he couldnt trust me after he found out. I didn't do anything to hurt him during these 5 months months but he can't trust me we broke up a week ago and he is already talking to a girl he met during a 2 week bartending course and he is 2 hours away from me. we lived together for 5 months and he is saying the same thing he told me a year ago. i was living with him and we were ok whlie he was at bartending school. he says that he has moved on and is happy now. and that HE HAS to move on. i dont understand what im supposed to do I've let him know that i will remain faithful and loyal. and i haven't been talking to any guys. I want him back but he keeps saying he can't and he wont. and that he has moved on i find it very hard to believe i need advice. How can he miss me when im 2 hours away and she lives in the same town as him?
- Keep reminding him everyday im here waiting and love him?Vote A
- Try the NO CONTACT RULE for a few weeks or a month?Vote B