My ex of 6 mos broke up with me a few weeks ago. Three weeks later he's been emailing me and called me once to chat. I went on vacation and he emailed me twice, sending me photos from his guy's weekend in Cape Cod and being flirty and funny. I responded and said we should get together soon and he said yes, it will be really good to see me. I know its not about him getting laid (trust me on this one). Is he just being cruel and playing with me or do you think he's having second thoughts? I know that when I am done with someone, I avoid them like the plague...
Most Helpful Guy
he probably hitting blanks in the dating scene1
Most Helpful Girl
If you think it's not about him getting laid, then trust your instinct! :) Then only way you'll know if he's playing with you is seeing how he interacts with you once/after you guys have met up. The only way you'll know if he's having seconds thoughts is after you've talked with him when you guys meet up. But I think the best thing you can do is decide how you feel about him before you guys see each other to hang out. Make sure your mind is set before you're around him again, so you don't walk through any open doors that were meant to stay shut. haha Sometimes we go against what is right for us because we never really made up our minds, so we end up being easily wavered into directions we meant to avoid. Don't let that happen to you, it'll be a mess. Decide what you want beforehand. :)1
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