So im wondering if I fall off the grid for a couple weeks or months if those feelings will always be there. I was intending to reconnect after a long period of time to see if we could start over. I think 2 months of being broken up isn't soon enough to start contacting her regularly. I did recently see her and we have text once every so often but haven't talked on the phone except for the week after we broke up.
Most Helpful Girl
From personal experience, no. It's very hard to forget the good times you've had with someone. For me, once in a while my mind will drift and I'll think of the good times I've had with some of my exes, no matter how bad the breakup was (although that would definitely be a deciding factor in whether or not I'd get back together with him.) Honestly, it sounds like you're on the right track. You sound like you know what you did wrong, you're sorry, and you realize that it will take some time to get back to normal with her. Just give it time, and see what happens, and hopefully things will, indeed, work out :)