I finally grew up and realized that the guy I loved and kept talking to for one year was a player. He made me feel special , lead me on, and never said he loved me. As stupid as I was I kept talking and going out with him until I realized he was flirting with ten other girls and that I had wasted one stupid year for a nobody and a liar. I want to break it off with him , make him stop talking to me because everytime we fight he sweet talks me back. How can I really break it off? Without telling him I liked him cause noway in hell im gona do that. I don't care what he'll think about me I just want him to hate me and stop fucking talking to me. Also im not his girlfriend so i can't mention other girls.
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Just flat out tell him it's over.
If he's been playing you for a whole year, you don't need to give him a reason. You don't owe him any explanation, if he's been treating you like shit this whole time. He already knows he's a douchebag and the only reason he'll want you back is to inflate his ego further. Don't give into his pleas, he's just trying to keep you wrapped around his finger.
If you firmly tell him to fuck off, his confidence will be crushed.
"How dare she smarten up on me? I had her right where I wanted her. I won't let her get away with this, how dare SHE break up with me?" Que fake apologies and more bullshit.
If you want him to hate you, you can always just tell him to his face that you know he's a player piece of shit and you want nothing to do with him. He'll definitely get mad at that and probably call you all possible names under the sun, most primarily focusing on the word "slut".1