The girl I dated behind my girlfriend's back refused to break up, how to get rid of her?

I dated this girl who has a boyfriend and me have a girlfriend. Now I tried to talk to her and asked her to end this relationship but she refused and said she doesn't care even if her by finds out.
She even said if I break up with her she will tell my girlfriend , she want us to continue seeing each others, from my bad luck she seems like a home wrecker.
How to get rid of her?


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  • Really? I thought we talked about this :(
    Tell your girlfriend the truth and beg for forgiveness.
    If she really loves you, she will.
    Then tell the homewrecker to fuck off.
    And next time, find someone who wants an open relationship!

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    • I would tell her and hope she forgives me and stay. For sure I would dump the homewrecker.
      NOT Agree about open relationship its wrong by moral.

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    • I'm shocked don't know what to say.

    • I am sorry I had to say that but you really struck a nerve.
      I don't know if your I-don't-give-a-shit shocked or I-am-a-terrible-person shocked.
      Honestly I don't think you are a terrible person except for your mentality over cheating :(

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  • Sounds like a great new movie out...)
    However, she IS being a bad sport and Obviously doesn't give a rat's behind if her Own Male tail finds out?
    The best you can do is remain calm and Civil. And with this includes a 'Civil tongue' as well. Get together with her, and have a long pet chat with her. Try to talk your way out of the mouse hole you're in, and the so-called 'Relationship' she Thinks you're in. Make her see it your way. But don't fight like dogs with her. This will Only antagonize her more, make her more bitter, and dig her claws into you more.
    But if she decides to cause trouble, of course you Could always deny it to your Other half. If you haven't left any turds behind to lead you to you and Minnie Mouse, then I would say she hasn't gotten anything on you And can't put you in her trap.
    Good luck. xx

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  • So, you cheat on your girlfriend with another woman and now she is the home wrecker? What does that make you, then, a saint? It takes two to tango. Just come clean and tell your GF the truth. I hope she leaves you.

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    • You should hope she stays. I'm not a saint and agree that I did a mistake but want to fix it.

    • Damn you sure are easy on yourself considering what you've done. I hope you're all "I'm human and I make mistakes, no one is a saint" after your gf screws the brains out of another man.

  • Told you this would happen, when you asked the other question. Your only hope is your girlfriend will forgive you when she finds out. But the chance are close to zero if not on the negative scale. Better tell her first.

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    • Remember you said but didn't think she is this type of girls. Hope there are chances my gf forgives and stays.

  • This is called karma. I'm sorry but you're a major asshole. You don't deserve your girlfriend, neither does that girl deserve her boyfriend. It's best if you just confess to your girlfriend. It'll hurt less to find out from you than from someone else, especially the girl you cheated on her with.

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    • This girls neither deserves her boyfriend no me. She is a cheater and a homewrecker. I decide to tell my gf.

  • One didn't satisfy you? Should've done the man thing and broke up with your girlfriend before you moved onto another one. What you're going to get is what you deserve.

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    • That was something wrong I did and now would do anything to fix it. If gf wants break up I will accept and if she stays I will NOT do this again on her.

  • Just stop putting an effort into the relationship and she'll soon lose interest. Some things you can try are:
    - Don't satisfy her during sex
    - Initiate long awkward silences
    - Show little interest in the things that are important to her
    - Acquire bad breath
    - Be emotionally distant

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  • Wow. You don't deserve any woman at all. Tell your girlfriend yourself and get the hell out of there and get your life straight. You're to blame in all of this too...

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  • What you sow, so shall you reap. I think you two were made for each other

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    • No I don't deserve to be with a girl like her she is a player.

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    • When it comes to girl guys can't reject.

    • Really? Being tempted is one thing but giving into temptation requires a certain action on your part. I take back my original comment, you don't deserve either girl.

  • Just tell your gilfriend thatnsome physco girl won't leave you alone

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    • Thank you its a great idea I can blame her for ALL and deny that I had relationship with her just call my gf the other girl wants to be with me and I refused so she wants to lie about me.

  • Be honest with your girlfriend.. it will most likely break the trust but if you keep lying she will end up finding out from someone else and if she does it will hurt her more girls are like human lie detectors they find out everything , Try rebuild the trust with her and dump the other girl

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    • I would do anything to keep her but agree that I need o tell her by myself and if she wants to leave I wish her best.

  • You have to tell her
    Because if she hears this from someone else you would be chopped and screwed

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    • I decided to tell her and looking to find the best way to do it.

    • Well you set up a date and apologize and come out with it. There is no sweet less painful way to do it. Just don't text her about it

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  • Hah, this is hilarious. That's what you get.

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  • You made your bed...

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  • Serves you right for being a cheat

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  • Wow you need a lot of help

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  • Before you call her "cheater" and "homewrecker", look at yourself. You are also a cheater and a homewrecker. You are cheating on your girlfriend and now you're upset that you might get caught?

    That being said, everyone makes mistakes. If you realized that cheating is wrong and that's why you're trying to end the affair, then tell your girlfriend and be honest about it. It will be much better if she hears it from you than from this other girl. Tell your gf that you made a mistake and you're sorry. Then this other girl won't have any power over you so you can just avoid her.

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    • Agree with your second paragraph I would do that and tell her myself and dump the other.

  • hahahahaha you got caught up...

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    • Unfortunately.

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    • I didn't cheat been used by that girl.

    • "i dated a girl behind my girlfriends back"... i pretty sure thats cheating.. quit avoiding it.. just because your fucked , now your sorry, I'm sure you wouldn't be sorry if this never happen and you just F her And she let you go... so thats why its FUNNY to Me..

  • You dug your own grave

    Deal with it

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  • wow, dude you messed up badly. First you should be ashamed fo yourself for cheating. Second, you can only get rid of her by letting your actual gf that you cheated. Tell your mistress you're breaking up and let her say to your gf the truth. Or even better, say that by yourself

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    • I know I did wrong and but at the end I would be alone and lose both of them.

    • Deal with it, that's the only thing you can do :) Find another girl but never cheat again

What Guys Said 7

  • Nice, so you use this girl for sex and then throw her away once you've used her? Not saying that she doesn't share the blame, but that's really fucked up. Tell your girlfriend immediately, she'll be a lot more willing to listen if it comes from you. No one wants to hear they've been cheated on through the grapevine.

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  • Marry her... you are made for each other. At least after your settlement, cheating will stop forever.

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    • She doesn't deserves to marry.

    • Nope.. not correct sentence.
      She neither deserves to marry her boyfriend, neither you deserve to marry your girlfriend. But you can marry each other because you both have cheated.

    • She will cheat again. A woman who cheats doesn't deserve anything.

  • You didn't have the foresight to see that something like this would happen? If you can't handle a relationship with one person then stipulate that you're interested in open relationships before you get with a woman. Stop **cking up all the loyal women and grow a pair, not kidding.

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  • Tell her you're pregnant!! oh wait... it doesn't work vice versa. Sorry dude, you're screwed.

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  • Watch Fatal Attraction for tips.

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  • A bucket, some concrete, some fish. Just man up. You fucked up, deal with the backlash.

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  • It looks like you threw yourself under the bus pretty good pal. The best thing is to tell the truth and take ownership of your actions. If she rats you out, then she does. You lined yourself up for that. Take that hit for the team, learn and move on. Stop making dick moves. Be better than that.

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