I guess this is a normal part of the break up process where each moves on to another person. I realise if I'm not dating her , she being a good looking girl is going to find someone else. its just it was such a miserable break up and I liked her so much she was someone special. I saw her and new guy last night at this bar I like to go to , she didn't even say hi and it was so upsetting to see them together cause I had wanted to take her to that same club when we were an item but it never happened , it was something I really wanted to do and she would of had fun with me but instead she's there with another guy. I just feel like I went through all this pain and heartache over her for nothing if she's just going to leave to be with him.
I don't know how I'm suppose to deal with this and feel good about things. I realise she doesn't want to date me and I should try and date another girl but that doesn't help me feel better or such.
Most Helpful Girl
You're not over her so of course those things are going to hurt you.
Only time will allow your wounds to heal.
You will eventually find another girl... but you have to get over her first.0
Most Helpful Guy
It's part of life. Move on to someone else. It will take your mind off of your ex.0