This has really have my head missed up right now. Okay well anyway I met this girl over a internet forum a few years back. After a while we started talking more and video chatting which led to us dating as of November 30th of last year. Last week I planned a visit since I'd been touring a college in her city her parents even invited me to spend the trip with them. I met her, her parents, and her little sister. I thought everything had gone good, at least from my point of view, but when I was leaving for the airport I got the feeling something was bothering her. She said she call my after I was safely back home to tell me.
(Skip to the part where I'm back at my house.) I call and see what was bothering her when I left. To my surprise she begins to cry and talk about how she thinks it may be best if we end it now. We talk for a bit before we decide it best we go back to being friends then I go to my room to think and take a nap. I wake up a few hours later and check my emails to find she had emailed me 2 minutes before I woke up. In the email she was taking about how she believe she made a mistake and asked if I want to try us again. I message back that I wasn't sure and that I would need time to think. Think is what she sends back: "Understandable...
I'm sorry if I hurt you. I have this feeling I made a huge mistake that I can't fix and it sucks. I know you'll find someone else though. Someone who's pretty, and smart, and who'll love you.
I still love you, CB. Nothing will change that. You'll always be my first love."
I don't hate her or anything, it's just that I was about to be over this when I suddenly find this. I'm not really sure what to do at the moment. I'm not asking whether I should get back together or not. I'm just needing a little advice on how to deal with this.
Most Helpful Girl
If I understand this post right-you took a nap and was pretty much over it then saw her text. If you were over it after a nap, then it meant nothing anyway. And please tell us your secret to getting over someone so fast. That's simply amazing.0
Most Helpful Guy
She realised in person that you had no chemistry with her, and her instinct was to break up.
But then she realised when you had gone that that is a bit of a shitty thing to do.1