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I can relate to your situation and whats running through her mind. Because I also broke up with my ex, we were together for 5 years. For what looks like to be the same reasons she broke up with you. I had a really rough childhood also. What she wants to do is find herself, discover who she is, and she wants to miss you. What ever you do (I know its hard) Support her, because if you tell her you dont want to break up or you become to clingy you will suffocate her. She will most def stay away from you because you're pushing her away. Your not the problem, she feels the need to explore and maybe her past has to do with it thats why she wants to stay away from family and friends. Just support her, tell her you will be her you will be there for her, and when you do hang out with her as "Friends" make it worth it. Both of you go somewhere you've both haven't been do something new together. Take her mind off of things, Be spontaneous and adventurous. Honestly my ex gave me my space and when we did hang out we did things we didn't do when we were together, it made me happy and miss him. Plus he also enjoyed it. I didn't want another guy I just wanted to find myself, and explore new things. But really try and do new and exciting things when you two hang out, it might not be right away. Good luck!
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