Yeah I already know this won't be easy. So I've been seeing this girt who has a class with me. And when I say seeing I don't mean dating, I just mean we've been talking and hang around for quite a bit now. We've found we have a lot in common and I really enjoy being around her, sadly more than my current girlfriend. I only started talking to her because I needed someone to talk with because my current relationship isn't so good now. To be honest my current relationship has been going downhill a lot as of lately. We fight constantly and I know it's going to end sooner or later. I want to break up my current girlfriend without hurting her to badly and try to see if this new girl and I can make something work. Any advice?
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This happened with my bf and I. he was talking to another girl. Calling her asking her how her day was a few times a week. He met her at the park and they kissed after he said he couldn't talk to her anymore. He just needed someone to talk to and said they were just friends. They didn't touch or anything, but he did lean in for a kiss when they were leaving the park. It really hurt me but he told me about her because he realized he wanted to work out our problems. so if you are interested in someone else and not wanting to work on your relationship you need to let your current gf go. I wouldn't really tell her there is someone else because then she is going to think you have been cheating on her no matter how much you deny it. She might over analyze everything and feel completely betrayed. If you just let her know things aren't working out. You really don't see the relationship going anywhere and you want to move on and you want to just be friends. It may be easier on her but if you tell her there is someone else she might feel like she isn't good enough and this girl is better than her, become crazy jealous because you were taking to her while you were in a relationship, it will hurt her self esteem. I say just end things and move on, but don't lie if she asks you if there is someone else just don't tell her you guys have been hanging out and talking.0