We tried the whole just sex thing, and we tried the whole no sex just friends thing. I don't think I can do it anymore. But i'm afraid I'll regret cutting him out. He's generally a nice person, but I feel like he's really judgmental and honest to the point of being cruel. Also he still treats me like i'm just a body sometimes. I want to cut him out... but then i'm like... what if i miss him...
what should i do?
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Give him one more shot: Call him right now and meet him face to face, otherwise do it through telephone, tell him: "I want your cruelty to end, though I don't want your honesty to (then lay down what you want)". If he's not being reasonable, or if he listens then rejects it, you have to dump him, it's the only way to move on. You are hesitant, but you have to trust yourself.1