My partner is into drugs and smokes and his friends and I always get left behind plus I have ask if we can have date night once a month but nothing has happened as of yet and I guess I just need help with deciding if I should stay with him or if I should just leave, please help.
- Stay and try hard to make it workVote A
- Leave and never look backVote B
- talk to him and make it workVote C
Most Helpful Guy
I would normally say leave cause if he's into drugs he not going to go anywhere in life. It took me a long time to see that and I learned many of hard lessons in cluding going to jail for someone who I thought was like a brother to me. But I can't tell you where you should love him or not but the best a vice I can give is look into your future a create a reasonable 1 year plan and if by 3 month he not moving in the same direction you are then it's time to go. If he streaten up and start going in the right direction then maybe got a chance at life together0
Most Helpful Girl
As a drug addict he is putting his drugs first.
If you're okay with constantly being 2nd in his life , then continue to stay.
I advise you to tell him how you feel.
Let him know that if he doesn't try to make things better
you will leave.
Even if you voice your opinion it may not be a wake up call.
He is an addict, and needs help.
He needs to first want to stop for himself, only then will he be able to make improvements.
But at least you will walk away from the situation knowing you tried and
didn't hold anything back.0