We're high school sweethearts and my parents shelled out $120k for the wedding. I know it'll break my mom and dad's heart if we break up
but i don't love him. at the same time, i don't hate him either. on my part, some of my reasons for not being satisfied are quite shallow, such as i'm not physically as attracted to him anymore (he gained weight, and he's balding). i could overlook his appearance if i loved him, but i don't. he doens't put in time and effort into our relationship.. his career and friends are more important to him. we don't have any kids yet.
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if he's not putting enough effort into the relationship then its worth telling him he needs to spend more time with you. you should also plan things to do that you recon could bond you two together.
i think you got attraction and love mixed up, your not attracted to him anymore, but you dont love him because he doesn't contribute anything to the relationship. -- its very easy to love somebody but not find them physically attractive anymore, which is why when people get over 50 they can still be happily married because their love overlooks their physical attractiveness.0
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