then later that day she told me sorry I forgot my phone i was with a friend and then later told me she was with another guy on his bike.
I ask her why she just didn't text me in the morning to let me know she is alive and going out with a friend.
she said is ok since she said I am probably see other girls and we are long distance and said if I was closer she would not do such things. But I told her I lived with my parents I don't go out and don't have many friends and of course would be impossible for me to cheat and I don't want to cheat. I feel as if I was not important enough that I was worried for not hearing from her until late in the evening that day.
Most Helpful Girl
sounds like you really have feelings for her. i personally would not consider that cheating, but i do wonder about her statement "we are long distance and said if I was closer she would not do such things". maybe she doesn't take this as seriously as you do? it's a lot easier to justify questionable behavior when you're in a long distance relationship. people have physical needs. where do you see this relationship going?
Most Helpful Guy
This is one of the pitfalls of a LDR. I don't think she was cheating. Nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex. It was just a bike ride.