My best friend has been in a very complicated relationship for a long time now.1 year i think. he is 16 years old and his girlfriend frequently tells him she wants to just be friends and then he gets so sad and says those things about how much he loves her and how sad he is then some time later they are back together. ( by the way his girlfriend wants to keep the relationship secret for a reason i don't know) now my best friend moved to the u. s and they will never see each other again so she says she wants to be just friends again, so now he starts to say those things again about how much he loves her. i tried multiple times to tell him to cut all communications and stop talking to her but he says no and he still loves her and that he will never find someone else and bla bla bla. so what do u think i should do and what do u think he should do?
he has been in the u. s for a month now and he is still soaked about her and she is all he thinks about.
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this guy is hung up on this chick
she obviously never really liked him to begin with and was probably using him to fill some hole in her heart or something to that extent. i think she is cruel and honestly, your friend needs a wake up call.
i have to be honest, he might be your best friend and all, but there are some things you can and can't do in that position. sometimes the person himself just needs to wake up and smell the burnt bacon. he might realize it sooner or later. i mean, over time, she might get tired of him and start keeping less and less contact with him until he gets the big picture. but for now, i think you should just support him and try to be there for him, so if he really does fall he'll have a shoulder to cry on... despite the distance.1