Hi I've just turned 18, and 4 months ago I met this amazing guy we have so much in common and hit it off straight away, insane chemistry. He's 26, but the thing is, he had a girlfriend at home pregnant and had a daughter. We were at the same birthday party and got too drunk and couldn't help ourselves, I almost fell in love straight away, and I couldn't keep away from him vice versa, a week later he left his partner for me, she's made our lives hell. We started living together at his mums a month into the relationship, I still contacted her until then but since we've lived together I've told him no contact unless it's about baby stuff but she always texts and calls him before and I got sick of it and told him no more cell phone and block her on Facebook so he did. He doesn't love her at all, and wants to spend his life with me. I have heard that she was really good to him and I understand she's heartbroken but she's just not letting it go. Their baby is due in 3 months and I'm scared, I'm trying to act happy and supportive for him but I hate his ex because I know she will try get him back and use their baby, I don't have kids of my own I'm 18 but I'm very mature. I'm sure I can trust him but I won't trust her with him on her own when their baby is born. What can I do? To prevent him leaving me? We live together and I feel great now but are things likely to really change?
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To be honest you dont sound that mature since you didn't take into consideration that him and his gf were together and you didn't limit yourself with him. "We got drunk and couldnt help ourselves" Good excuse. Wonder how long it will take before he leaves you pregnant while he finds some other girl to bone.
You are getting used here dear heart. If he has a kid with this chick, and made another one with her it wasn't an accident. He is feeding you line after line.
You sound like a child that is in way over her head. Dude has some serious baggage. Unless you live in a country that has nothing for child support she is going to take him to the cleaners for this. She is going to be part of his life for a long long time.
maybe you should rethink your position, and really you live at his moms place? Thats awesome. Im sure his mom is really thrilled with his actions. You have a jerk on your hands. If she treated him like gold, but he didn't love her, what does that say? Do the math here dear before you end up babys mama #21