I told him this when I cut him off 2 months ago. "Contact me when you are ready to discuss and resolve our issues".
So when do I assume we are over and when do I move on? I miss him dearly and I cry so much. We dated for 2 years and I've known him for 3 years. I'm utterly confused. He seemed so in love with me and crazy about me but he never wanted to deal with our issues.
At what point do I move on?
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I commend you for wanting to be insistent. That guy definitely is going to keep running away from the issues - he needs to face up to them.
If he hasn't contacted you again after 2 months, it's safe to say that you shouldn't be expecting him to. 2 months is a pretty long time! So treat that you guys are over. Put a steel wall in front of him.
To reaffirm your resolve and remind you of his transgressions, take a notebook, or a blog, and jot down all the issues that he refused to admit to and talk over. Jot down how he evaded the topic. Jot down how unrepentant and sly he was to try to get back to you, hoping that you had forgotten and forgiven him. It sounds like very strong adjectives to use, but remember how long he did this for and how he's so stubborn.
Whenever your heart wavers, look at what you jotted down. And of course, get on with your life. Start seeing other guys, it'd really help you get over him.