Okay so we are both in our 20s and have been dating for 8 years. I love my girlfriend more than anything and in that time I have never looked near another girl.
I'm at the point now were I'm completely sexually frustrated. She NEVER instigates sex, I booked us into a top hotel for an all nighter and she feel asleep watching family guy.
I got a bit worried in case she wasn't attracted to me and have been working out hard and now in very good shape and I don't know if she hasn't noticed or hasn't bothered to comment.
We never have fights and I always go out of my way to make sure she is happy. Like I said I love her and we have a great relationship outside the bedroom. I really don't want to end it but I have tried everything to get her interested in the bedroom but generally when I bring it she shrugs it off.
I know she would be devastated if I finished with her, and I know I would have regrets for the rest of my life if I did. This is the only long relationship I've ever been in. Do girls not make efforts for their boyfriends? Dress up in sexy lingerie? Have sex outside the bedroom? I really don't know what to do.
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Sounds like she's becoming complacent in the relationship. Best to confront her about your growing concerns to see how she responds before making any drastic decisions. If you explain yourself fully and without reservations and she blows it off as nothing, then she doesn't care; i. e. it's a dead relationship and you should just end it.2