Back in September 2013 I met this girl and we clicked instantly. We started talking more and more and after a month of constant contact I wanted to ask her out. However she got mad at me for a reason. We started talking again in during fall break and it was great but a week later she started dating my best friend. They dated for 2 months and in January they finally broke up.
She came to me heartbroken and I helped her get through it. Not too long after she told me that she liked me. At this point I didn't like her and I was skeptic to her liking me and I saw it as a way to get back at my friend. I made excuses why we couldn't date and she kept insisting that we should. I finally gave in and I told her we could but she said she needed to get over my friend. For a month we talked all day and I truly started to love this girl. However when ever I asked her to hangout or on a date she would give and excuse why not until she finally said yes. We went to see Frozen. I paid for her held the door open and it was amazing literally one of the best moments of my life.
After the movie she texted me saying she didn't want anything more than just friends. I was heartbroken and we didn't talk for a couple weeks. Around Valentine's Day we started talking once again and we once again we clicked right off the bat.
After 2 months she started dating an older kid from my school who was bad news. I told her and she didn't believe me. He asked her to Prom and broke up with her the next day.
Once again she came to me heartbroken. After that it all felt different like she actually wanted to be together. Right before school was over she said I was holding her back and she didn't want to talk at all anymore. Since weve talked on and off and she knows I like her. She has a BF now and tells me she loves me but she won't leave him. I want to get over she's put me through hell but Im truly in in love. My question is how do i get over my first love?
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man, this sucks. first things
First, cut off the friendship, it will hurt like hell, but it's the first thing you need to do.
Secondly try hanging around new people who don't know her, bc if you guys have mutual friends obviously her name is bound to come up in a conversations.
Three, have faith that you'll get over her, well that should be number two, but you get the point.
Four, do not, and I mean DO NOT harm yourself over this girl, you will think about it in the process.
Five, if she comes back or begs or talks or even CRIES don't give in. She WILL take advantage of your kindness, and fool you again and THEN you'll want to do step four, and we the universe wouldn't want that.
I think that's about it, I told you the steps I did to get over mines after being mislead like 2-3 times by the same guy, but hey, this makes us all stronger, good luck! (:0